Laura: I have joint legal custody with my ex. Recently we haven’t agreed on the placement of our 2nd grade daughter. She was in SDC until this year when she was mainstreamed. She doesn’t have an aide yet in the classroom. We just met for a conference and she’s above benchmark on 12 of her 13 academic goals. Teacher and RSP said they want us to consider a blended program at another school! Ex agreed with them and undermined all we had previously agreed to. I’m nervous they want to move her to another school for SDC they are recommending and that ex will agree. She lives with me physically 85% of the time. I primarily do hw with her. I am nervous that my rights, and hers, will now be ignored. What do I do?