Laurie: I just found out on Friday of last week from my childs PT that her iep meeting was scheduled for a date next week I can’t be there. I am trying to get it changed but I was told previously a parent is not needed to be present. My question is if they can’t change it and I don’t sign it because I am not present what happens. I am not going to sign it until they have meeting that includes me. I need for than 10 day notice for my schedule . Is it unreasonable. There are no major problems and the school is usually great. I am just wondering what can I do if they hold it without me, despite me saying I can come any other day any other time than what you chose .