MamGrizzley: I would like to know, once a hearing officer rules that an IEP provides FAPE, what can I do to get anything changed in it? Do I have to go to court? What if it is accommodations, like my son should have a 1:1 with him during lunchtime? Or that the toileting protocol needs to be coordinated with home? I am Scared to death to send my son to school!