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Jessica: My 8 year old daughter has autism and requires a 1:1. She also has daily seizures. She had to stop going to school after Christmas break last year due to the seizures. I would like to have her back in school, but I feel uneasy with her condition. I have been homeschooling her and had the idea that maybe I could be her 1:1. I asked the Special Ed Director and she said she didn’t know that she would have to find out. Just to be clear if she goes back to school the district has already said she will have a 1:1. Are there any laws or policies against parents as paraprofessionals?

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You may be able to become a Home Health Aide for your child if she has an existing insurance authorization through an agency. You would have to find an agency to hire you as a Parent/HHA and you can then be paid to be your child’s aide and be able to go to school with her. This will only work if you have a non-skilled nurse in place now. Your qualifications would have to match her needs. This is a fairly new opportunity for parents, but it is worth looking into. I will be going to school with my child who has Down Syndrome, autism, and serious medical conditions. She is nonverbal at 13 years old. This is the only way I could find to make things work for us. We have not had good luck with HHAs in the past.


I think it would be a “lose lose” situation. Parents are not paraprofessionals for their own kids and paraprofessionals are not parents for the kids they assist. You don’t want to put yourself in this position. The school should provide a well trained para who is also trained to the specific needs of your child. You also want your child to learn to navigate through the school years with a variety of adults and peers. The faculty and staff at the school would most likely not support the parents as paraprofessionals to their own kid


Yeah but sadly, as I have been thoroughly reading-up on paraprofessionals I’m finding that most of the time these “professionals” aren’t really trained to do squat-diddly with a special needs child! It makes me nervous and sounds like it could my my child’s situation worse. I know if they had someone patient and well-trained and certified that she would excel, but it seems schools don’t have the budget for such a thing usually. My child has severe autism and is non-verbal, and not potty trained and going into a special needs Kindergarten next year!


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