Toileting: IS SCHOOL REQUIRED TO ASSIST CHILD WITH TOILETING ACCIDENTS?

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Carolyn:  Hello, My son who is not doing well in his kindergarten class has started to have accidents after being toilet trained for 1.5 years. When this happens the school calls me to clean him up. They say that they are not allowed to. We have an IEP but it does not list anything about toileting accidents. If I get a call then I have to leave work to go clean him up. It’s happened twice a day as he’s not doing well and I need to find another placement. It doesn’t seem like FAPE to me when it’s costing me to loose wages to either not go to work or leave to clean him up.

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I echo Chuck and suggest that you ask for a Team meeting asap. If your state offers Facilitated IEP meetings, you may consider asking for this – the school may sing a different tune if there’s a third party present.

Start with the immediate issue – the toileting. Ask the school to come up with a plan to address the cause of the accidents (i.e. conduct a functional behavioral assessment), and the “aftermath” of them (i.e. your providing extra clothes, they doing the work). Once that is settled, move on to the bigger issues with his IEP and placement. If the school digs in their heals about the toileting issue, consider using a dispute resolution option.

Carolyn –

I have to admit that I laughed a little when I read your post. I thought I had heard it all, then I read that the school makes you come clean up your child. That’s absolutely ridiculous!

It’s well settled that schools must address student’s functional needs (like helping him toilet and cleaning him up afterward), if it’s necessary to help keep him in school. This assistance could be considered a related service or a supplementary aid or service – or, like, just something they do without needing to put it in the IEP (like most schools).

I am a male kindergarten teacher teaching a regular ed.class and do not find it ridiculous. I will not change a kindergartner’s diaper. Aside from it being highly inappropriate, it would increase the risk of my being accused of an impropriety. Until an IEP is developed, I find it completely reasonable to ask a parent or family member to come to school to change the diaper.

Whether or not they are legally allowed to change him in your state, the key issue is why is he now having accidents & how can the current situation be changed. Requesting an IEP meeting to discuss this & any other concerns that you have is certainly appropriate. Your state parent training & information project can assist you. http://www.parentcenterhub.org/find-your-center/

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