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use tactics and strategy when you write letters, and when learn how to 
deal with difficult people at school meetings. You use tactics and strategy 
when your organize your child's file. You 
use tactics and strategy when you learn how to measure your child's educational 
progress objectively. You use tactics and strategy when you chart out your 
child's test scores and take the charts to IEP meetings.   
 
 
   Getting 
It Done: How to Lead When You're Not in Charge. Roger Fisher and Alan Sharp. (Harper 
Business, 1998)   What can you 
do to facilitate effective school meetings when you're not in charge?  
  Roger Fisher (co-author of Getting 
to Yes) explains why collaborating with others is so difficult. People 
have minds of their own - and their decisions are influenced by their emotions.  
 Fisher offers a new strategy - how one person 
can help the group formulate a clear vision of results, suggest a course 
of action, and learn from past experiences. He shows how to ask questions, 
offer ideas, and make suggestions that will be heard. He shows how you can influence 
the actions of others by your own behavior.  "Well 
organized, easy to read. Offers lots of ideas about how to influence the 
way your team works. How to get past the pointless meetings and reactive 
in-fighting."
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for more information about Getting It Done.
 
 
 
   How 
to Read a Person Like a Book by Gerald I. Nierenberg.  
 How 
to Read a Person Like a Book (audio-cassette)  
 You Can Negotiate Anything by Herb Cohen.
 You 
Can Negotiate Anything feels like it was written as my own personal guide 
to dealing with the world. I've given Negotiate Anything to a dozen or so people 
who have had an indentical reaction. My only 
gripe is that Cohen apparently never wrote a second book."   Recommended 
by attorney mediators Diana Santa Maria and Marc Gregg in  7 
Steps to Effective Mediation.  |   Everyday 
Letters for Busy People by Debra Hart May.
 Are 
you stumped about how to write effective letters to the school?  In Everyday 
Letters for Busy People, you learn how to  write letters that get 
action, build relationships, and get your point across.   Includes 
hundreds of sample letters that you can use or adapt to your situation - including 
sample letters to use when you have problems with the school! Use this 
step-by-step approach to pull your thoughts together quickly and easily. Information 
about Everyday 
Letters for Busy People.  
 
  "How 
to Argue and Win Every Time" by Gerry Spence is not about 
arguing. It is about effective oral presentation of your position, using 
story telling and visual imagery. Pete used the principles in this book in the 
Carter oral argument. 
 "If 
you have an important meeting and your emotions are high, read Chapters 
Eight and Nine before you do anything else." 
 
 
   The 
    Associated Press Guide to News Writing
 by Rene Cappon.  This handbook for 
  writers is a common sense guide to writing with clarity, precision, and polish. 
   Learn what works, what doesn’t work, and why.     
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