{"id":7636,"date":"2014-02-27T09:00:42","date_gmt":"2014-02-27T13:00:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.wrightslaw.com\/blog\/?p=7636"},"modified":"2014-02-24T17:50:42","modified_gmt":"2014-02-24T21:50:42","slug":"quiz-are-you-an-appeasing-compromiser-or-an-assertive-parent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wrightslaw.com\/blog\/quiz-are-you-an-appeasing-compromiser-or-an-assertive-parent\/","title":{"rendered":"QUIZ: Are you an Appeasing Compromiser or an Assertive Parent?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"padding-bottom:20px; padding-top:10px;\" class=\"hupso-share-buttons\"><!-- Hupso Share Buttons - https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/ --><a class=\"hupso_pop\" href=\"https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/buttons\/gallery\/share-button-gray.png\" style=\"border:0px\" alt=\"Share\" \/><\/a><script type=\"text\/javascript\">var hupso_services=new Array(\"Twitter\",\"Facebook\",\"Google Plus\",\"Pinterest\",\"Linkedin\",\"StumbleUpon\",\"Digg\",\"Reddit\",\"Bebo\",\"Delicious\");var hupso_icon_type = \"labels\";var hupso_background=\"#FFFFFF\";var hupso_border=\"#FFFFFF\";var hupso_image_folder_url = \"\";var hupso_twitter_via=\"wrightslaw\";var hupso_url=\"\";var hupso_title=\"QUIZ%3A%20Are%20you%20an%20Appeasing%20Compromiser%20or%20an%20Assertive%20Parent%3F\";<\/script><script type=\"text\/javascript\" src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/js\/share.js\"><\/script><!-- Hupso Share Buttons --><\/div><p>Parent advocates come in a number of categories.<\/p>\n<p>Do you know your advocacy style?<\/p>\n<p>Be honest.\u00a0 Click the choices that apply to you. (You may select more than one).<\/p>\n<p>Then check the results to see how some advocates view themselves.<\/p>\n<div id=\"polls-19\" class=\"wp-polls\">\n\t<form id=\"polls_form_19\" class=\"wp-polls-form\" action=\"\/blog\/index.php\" method=\"post\">\n\t\t<p style=\"display: none;\"><input type=\"hidden\" id=\"poll_19_nonce\" name=\"wp-polls-nonce\" value=\"d39c5cd0c1\" \/><\/p>\n\t\t<p style=\"display: none;\"><input type=\"hidden\" name=\"poll_id\" value=\"19\" \/><\/p>\n\t\t<p style=\"display: none;\"><input type=\"hidden\" id=\"poll_multiple_ans_19\" name=\"poll_multiple_ans_19\" value=\"5\" \/><\/p>\n\t\t<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>What type of advocate are you?<\/strong><\/p><div id=\"polls-19-ans\" class=\"wp-polls-ans\"><ul class=\"wp-polls-ul\">\n\t\t<li><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"poll-answer-69\" name=\"poll_19\" value=\"69\" \/> <label for=\"poll-answer-69\">Pacifist<\/label><\/li>\n\t\t<li><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"poll-answer-70\" name=\"poll_19\" value=\"70\" \/> <label for=\"poll-answer-70\">I get things done<\/label><\/li>\n\t\t<li><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"poll-answer-71\" name=\"poll_19\" value=\"71\" \/> <label for=\"poll-answer-71\">Silent victim<\/label><\/li>\n\t\t<li><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"poll-answer-72\" name=\"poll_19\" value=\"72\" \/> <label for=\"poll-answer-72\">Fighter<\/label><\/li>\n\t\t<li><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"poll-answer-73\" name=\"poll_19\" value=\"73\" \/> <label for=\"poll-answer-73\">Dreamer<\/label><\/li>\n\t\t<li><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"poll-answer-74\" name=\"poll_19\" value=\"74\" \/> <label for=\"poll-answer-74\">Crusader<\/label><\/li>\n\t\t<li><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"poll-answer-75\" name=\"poll_19\" value=\"75\" \/> <label for=\"poll-answer-75\">Waiter<\/label><\/li>\n\t\t<li><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"poll-answer-76\" name=\"poll_19\" value=\"76\" \/> <label for=\"poll-answer-76\">Initiator<\/label><\/li>\n\t\t<li><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"poll-answer-77\" name=\"poll_19\" value=\"77\" \/> <label for=\"poll-answer-77\">Appeasing compromiser<\/label><\/li>\n\t\t<li><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"poll-answer-78\" name=\"poll_19\" value=\"78\" \/> <label for=\"poll-answer-78\">Action hero<\/label><\/li>\n\t\t<\/ul><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><input type=\"button\" name=\"vote\" value=\"   submit   \" class=\"Buttons\" onclick=\"poll_vote(19);\" onkeypress=\"poll_result(19);\" \/><\/p><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"#ViewPollResults\" onclick=\"poll_result(19); return false;\" onkeypress=\"poll_result(19); return false;\" title=\"View all results\">View Results<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n\t<\/form>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"polls-19-loading\" class=\"wp-polls-loading\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.wrightslaw.com\/blog\/wp-content\/plugins\/wp-polls\/images\/loading.gif\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\" alt=\"Loading ...\" title=\"Loading ...\" class=\"wp-polls-image\" \/>&nbsp;Loading ...<\/div>\n\n<div id=\"polls-21\" class=\"wp-polls\">\n\t<form id=\"polls_form_21\" class=\"wp-polls-form\" action=\"\/blog\/index.php\" method=\"post\">\n\t\t<p style=\"display: none;\"><input type=\"hidden\" id=\"poll_21_nonce\" name=\"wp-polls-nonce\" value=\"8a3ced3266\" \/><\/p>\n\t\t<p style=\"display: none;\"><input type=\"hidden\" name=\"poll_id\" value=\"21\" \/><\/p>\n\t\t<p style=\"display: none;\"><input type=\"hidden\" id=\"poll_multiple_ans_21\" name=\"poll_multiple_ans_21\" value=\"5\" \/><\/p>\n\t\t<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>As an advocate, which phrase best describes you?<\/strong><\/p><div id=\"polls-21-ans\" class=\"wp-polls-ans\"><ul class=\"wp-polls-ul\">\n\t\t<li><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"poll-answer-86\" name=\"poll_21\" value=\"86\" \/> <label for=\"poll-answer-86\">Beat around the bush, fail to describe problems, afraid to be vocal<\/label><\/li>\n\t\t<li><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"poll-answer-87\" name=\"poll_21\" value=\"87\" \/> <label for=\"poll-answer-87\">Communicate effectively, clearly, directly<\/label><\/li>\n\t\t<li><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"poll-answer-88\" name=\"poll_21\" value=\"88\" \/> <label for=\"poll-answer-88\">Abdicate to others the right to advocate for a child<\/label><\/li>\n\t\t<li><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"poll-answer-89\" name=\"poll_21\" value=\"89\" \/> <label for=\"poll-answer-89\">Self-reliant and independent, positive, strong<\/label><\/li>\n\t\t<li><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"poll-answer-90\" name=\"poll_21\" value=\"90\" \/> <label for=\"poll-answer-90\">Agree to keep peace, accept the status quo<\/label><\/li>\n\t\t<li><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"poll-answer-91\" name=\"poll_21\" value=\"91\" \/> <label for=\"poll-answer-91\">Prepare for meetings, stay informed, keep records<\/label><\/li>\n\t\t<li><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"poll-answer-92\" name=\"poll_21\" value=\"92\" \/> <label for=\"poll-answer-92\">Fail to act, give up because of red tape<\/label><\/li>\n\t\t<li><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"poll-answer-93\" name=\"poll_21\" value=\"93\" \/> <label for=\"poll-answer-93\">Not intimidated, demonstrate self-confidence<\/label><\/li>\n\t\t<li><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"poll-answer-94\" name=\"poll_21\" value=\"94\" \/> <label for=\"poll-answer-94\">Sometimes act hastily<\/label><\/li>\n\t\t<li><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"poll-answer-95\" name=\"poll_21\" value=\"95\" \/> <label for=\"poll-answer-95\">Hold people accountable, persist<\/label><\/li>\n\t\t<li><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"poll-answer-96\" name=\"poll_21\" value=\"96\" \/> <label for=\"poll-answer-96\">Ignore the right to services, accept excuses for inadequate services<\/label><\/li>\n\t\t<li><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"poll-answer-97\" name=\"poll_21\" value=\"97\" \/> <label for=\"poll-answer-97\">Work collaboratively, analyze problems<\/label><\/li>\n\t\t<\/ul><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><input type=\"button\" name=\"vote\" value=\"   submit   \" class=\"Buttons\" onclick=\"poll_vote(21);\" onkeypress=\"poll_result(21);\" \/><\/p><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"#ViewPollResults\" onclick=\"poll_result(21); return false;\" onkeypress=\"poll_result(21); return false;\" title=\"View all results\">View Results<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n\t<\/form>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"polls-21-loading\" class=\"wp-polls-loading\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.wrightslaw.com\/blog\/wp-content\/plugins\/wp-polls\/images\/loading.gif\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\" alt=\"Loading ...\" title=\"Loading ...\" class=\"wp-polls-image\" \/>&nbsp;Loading ...<\/div>\n\n<p>Read more from Marie Sherrett about <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wrightslaw.com\/info\/advo.parent.sherrett.htm\"><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Assertiveness and Effective Parent Advocacy<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.wrightslaw.com\/info\/advo.parent.sherrett.htm\"><span style=\"color: #000080;\">https:\/\/www.wrightslaw.com\/info\/advo.parent.sherrett.htm<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Parent advocates come in a number of categories. Do you know your advocacy style? Be honest.\u00a0 Click the choices that apply to you. (You may select more than one). 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