{"id":3668,"date":"2010-08-16T13:48:42","date_gmt":"2010-08-16T17:48:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.wrightslaw.com\/blog\/?p=3668"},"modified":"2016-09-28T17:24:18","modified_gmt":"2016-09-28T21:24:18","slug":"when-teachers-bully","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wrightslaw.com\/blog\/when-teachers-bully\/","title":{"rendered":"When Teachers Bully"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"padding-bottom:20px; padding-top:10px;\" class=\"hupso-share-buttons\"><!-- Hupso Share Buttons - https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/ --><a class=\"hupso_pop\" href=\"https:\/\/www.hupso.com\/share\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/buttons\/gallery\/share-button-gray.png\" style=\"border:0px\" alt=\"Share\" \/><\/a><script type=\"text\/javascript\">var hupso_services=new Array(\"Twitter\",\"Facebook\",\"Google Plus\",\"Pinterest\",\"Linkedin\",\"StumbleUpon\",\"Digg\",\"Reddit\",\"Bebo\",\"Delicious\");var hupso_icon_type = \"labels\";var hupso_background=\"#FFFFFF\";var hupso_border=\"#FFFFFF\";var hupso_image_folder_url = \"\";var hupso_twitter_via=\"wrightslaw\";var hupso_url=\"\";var hupso_title=\"When%20Teachers%20Bully\";<\/script><script type=\"text\/javascript\" src=\"https:\/\/static.hupso.com\/share\/js\/share.js\"><\/script><!-- Hupso Share Buttons --><\/div><blockquote><p>What do we do when our children are bullied by teachers? My son has a teacher who actually calls the kids wieners and makes fun of them if they are struggling. He has a mug and sign in the classroom that say &#8220;I see stupid people.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Unfortunately, this is not uncommon. You see it more often in middle school and high school. This teacher is allowed to continue because the principal or superintendent don&#8217;t really see the behavior as a problem. How you handle it depends in part on the age of the students.<\/p>\n<p>If elementary school, your strategy needs to be&#8230;<!--more--> different than high school. Here is a general strategy. But, it will not be as effective if this is happening in high school &#8211; people tend to believe that older kids need to learn how to deal with jerks. Most of us had a few jerks when we were in school. It was viewed as a learning experience.<\/p>\n<p>If you go to this page, you&#8217;ll find articles and resources that will help you deal with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wrightslaw.com\/info\/harassment.index.htm\"><span style=\"color: #000080;\">bullying behavior at school<\/span><\/a>:<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.wrightslaw.com\/info\/harassment.index.htm\"><span style=\"color: #000080;\">https:\/\/www.wrightslaw.com\/info\/harassment.index.htm<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Advise the Administrators<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Put any issues in writing.\u00a0 Write a nice polite letter where you advise the principal and superintendent about what is happening (the problem) and what you think should be done about it (your solution).<\/p>\n<p>The<strong> tone of your letter should not be complaining but advising them<\/strong> of this problem so they can take action. If you have a copy of our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wrightslaw.com\/bks\/feta2\/feta2.htm\"><span style=\"color: #000080;\">From Emotions to Advocacy<\/span><\/a> book, you will find sample letters in the book that will help you.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Next Step: The School Board<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If this doesn&#8217;t result in a change and you can&#8217;t get the administrators to take responsibility, meet with your school board member and educate him\/her. You may want to invite your school board member to have breakfast or lunch with you, then describe the problem. If you take this step,<strong> it&#8217;s very important that you have documented the problems and your attempts to resolve them in writing<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Make copies of the publication below about Harassment and provide copies to the principal, superintendent, and school board members.<\/p>\n<p>There are some excellent publications from the U. S. Dept of Education and Office of Civil Rights about this issue:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>An excellent resource for parents, teachers and others who are trying to protect kids is a publication from the Office of Civil Rights, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wrightslaw.com\/pubs\/ocr.harassment.pdf\"><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Protecting Students from Harassment and Hate Crime: A Guide for Schools<\/span><\/a>. It includes a section on the definition of harassment based on disability and provides step-by-step guidance for developing a district&#8217;s written anti-harassment policy.<\/li>\n<li>Free From EdPubs.org (ED001366B)<span style=\"color: #000080;\"> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.edpubs.gov\/Product_Detail.aspx?SearchTerm=ED001366B\"><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Preventing Bullying: A Manual For Schools and Communities<\/span><\/a><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">. T<\/span>his document addresses the problem of bullying in schools and defines bullying, discusses the seriousness of this behavior and the effectiveness of a comprehensive approach. The Manual presents strategies for teachers, students, and parents to use when dealing with bullying situations. It also provides examples of innovative and successful approaches used by schools in different parts of the country.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Get Support from a Child Psychologist<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Get a child psychologist to meet with the person who has power and describe the damage this guy is doing to the children.\u00a0 Write a follow up letter after the meeting.<\/p>\n<p>However, if this is happening to older high school kids, you are not as likely to get a response that will satisfy you.<\/p>\n<p>When I had jerk teachers, my parents let me know they believed in me, that they agreed the person was a jerk, that the school year would soon be over and I&#8217;d be free. The fact that they believed in me, and agreed that the person&#8217;s behavior was bad helped because I valued their opinions more than I valued the bad teacher&#8217;s opinions (or slogans on coffee cups). They also taught me that there are jerks in the world and I had to learn how to deal with them.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What do we do when our children are bullied by teachers? 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